There are things in this world that should be hard, things I like that way or at least hard-adjacent
Clipboards and notebooks and Classic Lit. Paddles and Canes and Microphones. Booty Spanks, Dicks, Hair Tugs and Bites. Ohhh let’s not forget nipples and all the fun things you can do with them.
Then there are things that should never be hard
A relationship. Communication.
That is not to say that either should be effortless and should never have their struggles but it should never just be hard.